It’s tough being a child or teenager.
We all know growing up can be difficult. It’s hard navigating through peer relationships, school, and figuring out yourself. Life isn’t easy for any of us, and young people sometimes have to work through the same kind of losses, setbacks, or traumatic experiences adults do. These days, young people have to do all that while also straddling in-person and online spaces. That’s why it helps to have a trusted ally (like a therapist) for kids to talk to.
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Therapy can help answer the big questions.
Having a trusted person outside their family and day-to-day life can give young people a place to figure out how to steer through whatever problems they are experiencing.
Sometimes, talking about the things they are struggling with or insecure about is difficult with family or friends, and therapy can be a place to work through the “first draft” of those thoughts or feelings. A therapist can provide support as well as teach skills or information to help you or your child.
Therapy should fit your child.
We understand that mental health support for children, adolescents, and families must be tailored to each individual. That’s why our team creates personalized treatment plans for each child or adolescent.
Our child and adolescent therapy services are available in person or via video call, offering individual and family therapy. We provide a wide range of strategies to address issues such as:
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Helping children and teens with anger or acting out.
Anger is corrosive.
Anger is not all bad. Sometimes, anger can motivate us to action when we’ve been treated unfairly or when we need to stand up to injustice. Some people don’t get angry enough and end up conceding or taking too much responsibility.
Unfortunately, young people can get overwhelmed by anger, whether justified or not, and acting on anger can sometimes be self-defeating. Some children and teenagers get too angry, are too quick to blame others, and cannot escape feeling unheard or unrecognized. We work with young people to reduce the damage anger can cause to relationships and opportunities in life.
We can choose what we do with anger.
The real problems come from not being able to let go of anger when it doesn’t really matter or channeling that anger into destructive behaviors. “Anger management” is about addressing both sides of anger, practicing not getting as mad about things, and learning how to mitigate the damage when one does get mad.
Therapy provides children of all ages with:
A child and adolescent therapist focuses on improving the emotional well-being of young individuals through various therapeutic techniques. These professionals, often clinical psychologists or other specialized clinical staff, are trained to understand the unique challenges faced by children and adolescents. Their work can include psychological assessments to understand a child’s needs, therapy sessions that involve the child and sometimes parents, and coordination with other staff members to provide comprehensive care.
Child therapists are skilled in addressing a wide range of issues, from anxiety and depression to eating disorders and substance abuse. They utilize evidence-based assessment and treatment methods to create personalized therapy plans. By fostering a safe and supportive environment, therapists encourage children to express themselves freely, helping them work through their difficulties.
Moreover, the collaboration between therapy and parents is crucial in the therapeutic process. Therapists often guide parents on how to support their child’s emotional and psychological development outside of sessions, ensuring continuity of care at home. This holistic approach is aimed at fostering resilience, self-understanding, and healthy coping mechanisms in children and adolescents, laying a foundation for long-term mental health and well-being.
Children and adolescents can benefit from therapy in many ways. Sometimes, therapy can be a helpful support for a child or adolescent to learn more about themselves and grow. In other cases, you may observe changes in their behavior, such as withdrawal from social activities, a drop in academic performance, emergence of high risk behaviors, or other changes. These signs could indicate your child or teen is struggling with mental health issues. Children and teens, like adults, can experience depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder, and other conditions that impact their day-to-day functioning.
We operate in San Francisco, and provide both in-person and online therapy for children and adolescents.
Complex trauma is a term that refers to repeated, intense, and often interpersonal traumatic experiences. Traumatized adolescents and children who experience these ongoing, distressing experiences may go on to experience problems in their lives. Sometimes, these problems do not emerge until later in life. Trauma-focused therapies involve working closely with children and their caregivers, providing support and strategies to rebuild a sense of safety and trust. Trauma therapy often includes several components, such as trauma narration and processing, in which children are encouraged to share their traumatic experiences in a safe environment.
Therapy provides adolescents with a safe and confidential space to explore their feelings, thoughts, and behaviors under the guidance of a therapist. It focuses on enhancing the emotional well-being of teenagers by helping them understand and manage the challenges of adolescence, such as identity issues, peer pressure, and academic stress. Through therapy, adolescents learn effective coping skills, improve communication with their families, and develop a stronger sense of self.
In therapy, the collaboration between the therapist, the adolescent, and their parents or caregivers is key to fostering an environment of trust and open communication. This supportive setting allows teenagers to express their concerns without fear of judgment, enabling them to work through issues related to self-esteem, relationships, and future goals. By equipping adolescents with the tools they need to navigate life’s challenges, therapy contributes to their overall growth and development, preparing them for a healthier, more fulfilling future.
The best form of therapy for children often depends on the individual child’s needs and the specific challenges they are facing. The short answer is that no one approach is better than any other overall. It depends on each child and what they need.
Many approaches, including cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), interpersonal therapy, play therapy, and family therapy can all be effective in helping children with a broad range of issues, including anxiety and depression.
It’s difficult to be definitive, but a 14-year-old certainly could benefit from therapy, especially if they are experiencing emotional or behavioral issues, such as disruptive behaviors, suicidal thoughts, or difficulties related to their sexual orientation. Therapy provides a supportive environment where adolescents can explore their feelings, understand their behaviors, and develop healthy coping skills. At this age, individual therapy can be particularly effective, as it offers personalized attention and care tailored to the teenager’s specific needs and challenges. In addition to individual therapy, family therapy may also be beneficial, allowing the adolescent and their family members to improve communication and resolve conflicts. Starting therapy at 14 can help adolescents navigate the complexities of teenage years with greater resilience and confidence.
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