What Are the Stages of Grief?

Grief isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience, and nobody moves through it in a perfectly predictable order. The “stages of grief” typically refer to five emotional phases, denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance, first described by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross. While these stages give us language for what’s happening inside, it’s normal to bounce back and forth between them, […]
How Do You Know You Need Counseling or Therapy?

Most of us picture therapy as something you only consider when life has totally gone off the rails. But, truth is, taking a step toward counseling isn’t about hitting rock bottom, it’s a conscious move to get more clarity, peace, and connection in your day-to-day life. Sometimes the signs that we could use expert support […]
Navigating Loss When You’re Wired to Push Through: Effective Coping Strategies and Therapy Support

Loss rarely fits into the rhythm of a busy life. Many high-achieving professionals cope by working harder, staying productive, or reasoning away the pain. It may feel efficient, but unacknowledged grief often shows up in the body, mind, and relationships. As a grief therapist in San Francisco, I see how those used to solving problems […]